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siRiotGrrl (1:15:10 AM): hey, can i send you somethign i found on one of the message boards i go to?

AntizeroM (1:15:32 AM): sure as long as i dont have to sign up

siRiotGrrl (1:16:37 AM): its this one woman’s advice to younger girls on losing their virginity, and i completely agree with it.

siRiotGrrl (1:16:46 AM): it honestly makes me feel better a little bit

AntizeroM (1:16:51 AM): ok send it

siRiotGrrl (1:17:10 AM): sent

AntizeroM (1:21:43 AM): it reminds me of my first time, but I would give very different advice

AntizeroM (1:21:46 AM): but i’m a guy

siRiotGrrl (1:22:13 AM): what would you say?

siRiotGrrl (1:22:40 AM): im curious

AntizeroM (1:24:48 AM): just fuck him, shut up and fuck him. the whole idea of sex is a gift is bullshit, it’s no accident that prostitution is the oldest profession. it’s a commodity, and if you don’t believe that believe you’re going to die anyway. so if you want to spend from now to then complaining about the one go for it, but the idea of one for everyone is bullshit too

AntizeroM (1:25:07 AM): look at bums, do you think they have anyone lusting after them?

siRiotGrrl (1:25:12 AM): i do agree with teh whole gift thing

siRiotGrrl (1:25:32 AM): but yet i dont see just fucking the first guy who is interested either

siRiotGrrl (1:25:48 AM): i meant agree with you

AntizeroM (1:27:21 AM): the illusion of the one is a myth from the grimm bros, then disney. love is a chemical and biological reaction. what you are looking for is a mate with the proper genes to propogate the human race which
a) needs no help propogating
b) doesn’t deserve to propogate at all

AntizeroM (1:28:11 AM): so shut the hell up, find the least zitty teenager that’s willing to give it to you and take the plunge

AntizeroM (1:28:37 AM): that’s the advice i would give

AntizeroM (1:28:44 AM): but i’m a romantic too

siRiotGrrl (1:28:53 AM): personally, i disagree with that theory

AntizeroM (1:29:05 AM): really?

AntizeroM (1:29:28 AM): do you know the concept of romantic love is a relatively new train of thought?

AntizeroM (1:30:25 AM): it came around the time of shakespeare, marriages were pre arranged for objects or power or land

AntizeroM (1:30:39 AM): anything else was lust

AntizeroM (1:31:22 AM): that’s why it’s one of the 7 deadly sins, so it wouldn’t fuck up their concept of marriage

siRiotGrrl (1:31:26 AM): i dont see myself giving it up to the first guy who actually gives me a glimmer of interest

AntizeroM (1:32:08 AM): i didn’t expect to get punched out when i lost my virginity, but it’s different for everyone

siRiotGrrl (1:32:34 AM): yeah.

AntizeroM (1:33:10 AM): anyway the only reason that we can afford ourselves the luxury of romantic love is because we think we are better than the past

AntizeroM (1:33:20 AM): is it really so different?

AntizeroM (1:34:04 AM): ask a single woman in her 30s what she’s looking for in a guy, chances are she’s going to say good job, career, security

AntizeroM (1:34:23 AM): women still give themselves up to be in a better position socially

siRiotGrrl (1:34:32 AM): true.

AntizeroM (1:35:11 AM): even if they don’t do it on purpose they still do it on a subconcious level

siRiotGrrl (1:35:29 AM): oh yeah

AntizeroM (1:36:21 AM): if mr big was a mail clerk, or better yet a middle management guy who has three ties from kmart would carrie give it up to him?

AntizeroM (1:36:30 AM): no

siRiotGrrl (1:37:06 AM): i never watched sex in teh city, so i wouldnt know

AntizeroM (1:37:17 AM): if paris of troy was another peasent or foot soldier would he still be able to score helen

siRiotGrrl (1:37:31 AM): who knows

AntizeroM (1:38:20 AM): if romeo was a servant instead of the inheiritor of one of the most powerful families in verona, would juliet give him a second look?

siRiotGrrl (1:38:52 AM): if im correct, i dont think juliet knew romeo was a capulet. they met at a costume ball, no?

AntizeroM (1:39:27 AM): still he was well dressed, and an attendee of the ball so she knew he was in the same caste

AntizeroM (1:39:30 AM): if not better

siRiotGrrl (1:39:50 AM): ok

siRiotGrrl (1:39:56 AM): i get the point, peter

AntizeroM (1:41:06 AM): once you free yourself of the concept that romantic love is bullshit, and it’s really chemicals and 1000s of years of customs, and millions of years of biology really talking life gets better

AntizeroM (1:41:50 AM): yeah don’t get me wrong, I would like to meet a nice person. but is it really me or survival of the human race talking?

siRiotGrrl (1:42:13 AM): dunno. i just havent met someone who i felt that zing for.

AntizeroM (1:43:41 AM): you will sooner or later but remember don’t kid yourself, you really found someone who is an equal socially, mentally, and physically. then the chemical inbalances begin

siRiotGrrl (1:44:49 AM): *sigh*